It is easy to love people in memory; the hard thing is to love them when they are there in front of you.
—John Updike (via misswallflower)
Trigger warming: extreme violence against women, discussion of murder, suicide, online bullying
As a sexologist, I’ve been writing and educating about sexual double standards for years; the age-old damned if you do, damned if you don’t predicament women face about their sexuality. If you have…