If you wouldn’t do it to a man, then stop it. It doesn’t matter what your motivations are. Stop it. Figure out why you expect women to perform unpaid emotional labor for you. Figure out what’s prompting you to try to control women’s emotions and behaviors and faces. Figure out why you think that’s ok. And then do what you need to do to change that about yourself so that you can be a better man. Do what you need to do to make the world a safer place. Because if you’re not making yourself part of the solution, you’re part of the problem and we don’t need that. Stop it.
She frequently insists on playing with her toys directly on me.
It’s cool. 1:30am is totally the appropriate time to flail around like an idiot. #dachshund #minidachshund #wienerdog #puppy #puppiesofinstagram
Someone is a little slow. #minidachshund #dachshund #dogsofinstagram #wienerdog #puppy
Yes, she is eating my bubble bath bubbles. #minidachshund #dachshund #dogsofinstagram #wienerdog
#minidachshund #dachshund #dogsofinstagram #wienerdog
If you think a woman in a tan vinyl bra and underwear, grabbing her crotch and grinding up on a dance partner is raunchy, trashy, and offensive but you don’t think her dance partner is raunchy, trashy, or offensive as he sings a song about “blurred” lines of consent and…